Relationship Guidelines
In any relationship what is important is
understanding and trust. It is important to build and maintain a FRIENDSHIP in
your relationship and that you give your partner the benefit of the doubt when
times are tough... namely TRUST! Learn to understand each other, know each other
and know what makes your partner happy.
What Men Need to Know: The Woman's Point of View
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The most important
thing is being sensitive and romantic in your words and action. Please don't
fake your emotions and say things you don't mean.
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Please listen to
what she is saying. Most of the men never try to know what a woman wants because
they never listen attentively. Don't take your girl for granted.
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DO
build her trust by being faithful and truthful, and always "being there."
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Spend time together, cuddling, kissing and learn to enjoy foreplay
and learn about her body and erogenous zones instead of jumping to the real
thing.
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Never expect or demand
sex.
What Women Need to know: The Man's Point of
View
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Do take the initiative instead of expecting him to be
the one to initiative first always.
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Try to accept him without
judgment.
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If you are still dating don't expect him to profess his
love for you so soon.
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DON'T push him into a commitment or an exclusive
relationship.
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Don't take everything personally.
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Don't
always expect him to apologies to you.
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DO let him withdraw once in
awhile; understand his need to be alone, to take things slowly, or to have a
night out with the guys.
It is quite normal to have up's and down's in a
relationship but how you argue when in a relationship can determine if you have
a relationship that falls apart or lasts.
Things to avoid when arguing or fighting with your relationship partner:
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Criticism
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Contempt
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Defensiveness and stonewalling (withdrawing from talking)
Good things to use in an argument:
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Using humor to break tension in an argument.
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Expressions of affection for your partner.
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Acknowledge your
partners point of view.
